101 Relationship Myths

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How to Stop Them from Sabotaging Your Happiness


Challenging many common delusions about love, this straight-talking, humorous guide takes a closer look at the insanity of modern-day relationships. 101 Relationship Myths (Findhorn Press £9.99) uses simple “myth-busting” techniques for increasing self-awareness and avoiding misguided ideas. Read an extract here http://bit.ly/101relatemyths

Chapters include:

•   Stay Far Away from Women in Their 30s

•   Your Partner Isn't a Mind Reader

•   Can a Relationship Only Work if You Compromise?

•   Does Strong Sexual Attraction Mean You're a Good Match?

•   Is It Better to Be in a Relationship Than to Be Single?

Guaranteed to provide greater clarity and contentment between any two people, this book provides provocative—and much-needed—social commentary in a humorous fashion.

Examples of some of the collective myths which Ray investigates are:
My happiness is dependent on my partner.
If you love me, you’ll do what I want.
If I try hard enough, my partner will sooner or later change.
I’m more selfish than my partner if I don’t do what my partner wants.
I know what is best for my partner.
A relationship can only work if you compromise.
A relationship is only a success if it lasts until death do us part.
I need a partner to be happy.
It’s better to be in a relationship than to be single.
I can only experience the love that I seek with one special person.
Strong sexual attraction means we’re a good match.
Men and women are different.

In this entertaining and thought-provoking book, Ray presents a revolutionary new way of looking at our relationships and why they can be so problematic – and then he goes on to offer some refreshing, new advice as to what we can do about it. 



Ray’s premise is that most of us believe in a wide range of myths about men and women, love and relationships that we’ve never questioned. And it’s our unquestioned belief in these myths that confuses us and makes us unhappy in our relationships. To help readers understand the power of myths in our lives, he identifies some of our most common “relationship myths”. And then he shows us how we can free ourselves from them. The result is much greater clarity, joy and love in our relationships.

About the Author: Tim Ray is a popular relationship columnist and blogger, and has appeared in relationship programmes on TV, been a guest lecturer at couple’s therapy school, and has a private counseling practice. He calls his work “Getting Real” and by this he means how to live a happy life by waking up to the nature of reality and the way the mind works.

About the Book 101 Relationship Myths  Paperback ISBN 978-1-84409-584-1 £9.99 to request a review copy of the title please e-mail carol@findhornpress.com

Carol Shaw Publicity & Marketing Manager Findhorn Press tel: 01309 641576 e-mail: carol @findhornpress.com 

Findhorn Press is an independent publishing house in northeast Scotland which offers books, sets of cards, cds and dvds that cover a wide range of 'mind-body-spirit' topics such as nature, spirituality, alternative health (for both people and for animals), self-help, etc. We publish under 3 different imprints: Findhorn Press, Camino Guides (which focuses on guidebooks for pilgrims to Santiago de Compostella) and Earthdancer (holistic, mostly crystal, healing, and the nature/angelic kingdoms).

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In this entertaining and thought-provoking book, Ray presents a revolutionary new way of looking at our relationships and why they can be so problematic – and then he goes on to offer some refreshing, new advice as to what we can do about it.
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Guaranteed to provide greater clarity and contentment between any two people, this book provides provocative—and much-needed—social commentary in a humorous fashion.
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Once he identifies the myths, Ray then uses his simple mythbusting technique to find out whether or not this story or idea has anything to do with reality.
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“Never before have I read an author who has done so much research into ‘what happens to the hero and heroine AFTER they finally get each other’. Read Tim Ray’s book and get a driver’s license for your relationship.”
JANE AAMUND – Denmark’s leading woman writer and author of countless bestselling books
“A fun and courageous book that shows us how we can experience more happiness in our relationships by questioning the traditional ways of doing things. I warmly recommend this book to everyone who’s interested in personal development.”
OAN ØRTING – Denmark’s leading sexologist, couple therapist, TV host, and best-selling author
What you write is fantastic and really makes one think. It's great that you are so provocative. First you stir up a lot of emotions and then you apply the healing balm.
CHARLOTTE HAASE - editor, Psykologi