21 ways to change the chatter of your little voice.....
Ever wondered what stops you from achieving something you have been hankering for so long? At times we set out towards our goals with great gusto and enthusiasm, but on most of the occasions, it dies down. It is very important to maintain the optimism you first started with.
Blair Singer, the author of “little voice” mastery, helps you maintain that positive attitude through simple principles in his book. Singer is known for his dynamic talks. His speeches and seminars can ignite the fire within you and help you achieve the impossible. He trains individuals and organizations to achieve the best they can and increase the horizon of their potential achievements. The results of his talks are known to be instantaneous and register an immediate growth of positive thought processes in an individual and organization. Blair singer little voice gives us the treasured 21 principles to change the chatter of the little voice.
Singer’s book little voice mastery tells us how we can develop a positive attitude towards things by boosting our self confidence and not heeding the negative thoughts and ideas that keep playing in our minds when things do not work the way we want them to. Self motivation and killing the seed of low self esteem is of utmost importance.
Here are 21 ways to change the chatter:
>Never be afraid of making a mistake: A mistake or failure is not the end of your world. It is always alright if you make a mistake. Always learn from your mistakes. A wise man never hesitates before committing a mistake. He is simply careful to not repeat the same ones again.
>Do not think of what could have happened if you would have done things differently. What’s done is done. Love the result or learn from it and do better the next time.
>Know your strengths. Conquering self doubt is the biggest achievement for an individual. Play on your strengths and know what you really want to do. A clear goal will help you focus better.
>Love yourself. Irrespective of what others think of you, you have to admire yourself the most. Feel good about yourself and you can lift up your mood.
>Break tasks into subdivisions. This will help you accomplish small bits and parts of your project and give you a sense of joy, as you have finished at least some portions of the project.
>Finish tasks that you take up. There might be a time when things do not go your way and you might want to give up since you feel depressed with the task at hand, but stick to it. Finish what you start and the end result will definitely give you a tremendous boost of confidence.
>Abide by your principles. This will give you a sense of direction and a purpose to do something. In case you ignore this aspect, it will depress you as you will find whatever you do to be futile.
>Speaking slowly gives you a sense of authority and boosts your confidence. So do it. Even if you find it difficult initially, try it till you are comfortable with it.
>Always keep smiling. As you smile, it uplifts your mood automatically helping you do things more effectively with a calm mind.
>Do not clutter your workplace. This will only hamper your thought process. Keep it minimal and as clean as possible.
>Take responsibility for your actions. This will empower you and bring a sense of worthiness in you.
>Exercise regularly. This will keep your body fit and mind active. A healthy mind and a healthy body will boost your self esteem preventing you from feeling bad about yourself.
>Find solutions to your problems. Do not crib and cry, but take effective action. Empowering yourself is the biggest remedy.
>If you feel that you do not have the potential to achieve big goals, start from small ones. Take responsibility and finish a task. This will help you achieve larger goals.
>Have a positive attitude towards things. Know that there will be hurdles, mistakes will happen etc. but learn to face it with a huge smile and see how you can work at improving the situation.
>Work on that one aspect which is stopping you from achieving your goal.
>Know that you are wonderful. No matter what people tell you, have faith in yourself. Know that you have the potential and capability to achieve a task if you put your heart into it.
>Have complete information on the task you are taking up. This will increase your efficiency level and the positive end result will boost your self esteem.
>Do not put your hands into too many things. Focus on one thing and do it to the best of your ability.
>Take little breaks between projects to lighten your mood so that you do not lose interest. Little breaks will provide a leeway for your boredom and you can get back with full focus.
>Do not hold grudges against yourself or somebody else for a failed project, task, relationship or anything else. This will only create bitterness. Simply let go. What has happened was in the past. Live in the present moment because this is now.
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